Be a part of Holly as she searches east Auckland for love and connection.
Through which Holly encourages you to attract your personal porn (effectively, sort of).
Not lengthy after he painted the attractive Athenais in 1908, John William Godward’s star started to fade.
Godward was an anachronism. Although expert, he arrived within the artwork world just a little too late to turn out to be a legend.
The blinding mild of modernism was speeding over the horizon, and Godward’s neo-classical model was falling from favour.
His work of semi-nude girls have been typically diminished to gents’s parlour artwork – the Edwardian equal of an affordable topless calendar in a modern-day man cave.
In Athenais, a younger lady stands in a sheer, ruby-coloured gown, one arm resting on a marble wall.
The opposite arm hangs by her hip, a black feather fan in her hand.
She gazes barely off to the aspect (or, maybe, into the longer term – she is a prophetess, in any case), however her toes and one pert nipple level straight on the viewer, returning our consideration.
Godward’s sexualisation of the topic is blatant, however she’s painted in beautiful element.
Quick ahead to the early Nineteen Nineties, when the boys within the row in entrance of me at college spent their days drawing photos of boobies.
Smartphones weren’t round then, so except they have been courageous sufficient to steal their dad’s naughty magazines, DIY erotica was their solely alternative.
They could not have had Godward’s expertise (the sketches I noticed seemed extra like baked items than breasts) however not like him, they created their artwork at simply the fitting time.
They, and I, have been members of the final technology whose pure curiosity round nudity remained intact, not less than for some time.
We now know what a privilege it was to have the ability to sit with that curiosity.
Not getting access to an web’s value of illicit content material was a blessing. The consequences of porn on younger brains are well-studied and deeply regarding.
Ought to they’ve been paying consideration at school, as a substitute of drawing bare girls? After all.
Nonetheless, I’d argue that the images have been a victimless act of creation.
These days, nude pictures are straightforward to come back by, however hardly ever victimless. Deepfakes are all over the place, making anybody who’s ever had their photograph taken a possible sufferer.
On the faucet of a key, AI avatars will flirt aggressively or disrobe and dance seductively.

Whereas this might sound victimless, what impact does it have on our brains… and our humanity?
Reader, I’m not anti-tech, however baby exploitation, privateness infringements, warped physique picture and lowered intimacy expertise are all potential risks of under-regulated AI.
The tech trade’s personal laws are inadequate, and, in some circumstances, disgraceful.
Meta lately confronted a backlash for a leaked coverage doc that permitted chatbots to “interact a toddler in conversations which might be romantic or sensual”.
As a lot because the tech-bros attempt to persuade us that they’re all about accountability, their potential to self-govern can’t be trusted.
Their fame for going quick and breaking issues precedes them.
Smart, well-evidenced coverage is essential, after all, however we, the general public, even have the ability to combat AI encroachment in our lives.
I counsel all of us begin by drawing boobies.
Creativity is nice for our gray matter. Not like AI, it unquestionably fosters, moderately than threatens, our humanity… and what higher inspiration than our our bodies?
They’re, in any case, the containers of our human expertise and excellence.
That’s why, Reader, all our bodies are stunning and worthy of celebration.
They’re the masterpieces that we reside, work, love and play in.
Let your self be impressed! As a substitute of messing about on ChatGPT, Reader, why not strive life drawing?
Or sculpture, or poetry, or portray… no matter type of artwork tickles your fancy.
You don’t should be the subsequent Godward – simply have a go.
Belief me, your mind will thanks for it.
E mail holly@instances.co.nz.
Yours in love,
Holly













